
This Christmas was marked by periods of togetherness, episodes of silliness, moments of tenderness, and times of wonder. I count myself lucky to have experienced all of them.
| The 26th was our opportunity to celebrate with Kaye, Dave, Kim, Seldon, Larry, and Jayne. We arrived at 9 am, partook of bran muffins and fruit soup (a tradition near and dear to Ken’s heart … and stomach!), and opened our gigantic stockings. Everyone really went to the max this year. Our stockings include chocolates, olive oils, books, magazines, trinkets, toys (Ken loved his sparkly green ball!), jewelry, gift cards (Starbucks, Dick Blick Art Supplies, Archivers, KodakGallery, and Qdoba!), candle snuffers, magnets, … well, you get the idea! Lots of cool stuff! We then exchanged gifts. It was so wonderful to see our gifts so well received: the handmade calendar for Kaye & Dave, nostalgic candies for Dave, fuzzy “Life is Good” socks for Kim, a mystery puzzle for Seldon, quilt fabric for Jayne, a donation to Global Giving for Larry, and last (and best) the painting Ken made for Kaye! Some of our bounty included a new giant crockpot, several books & DVDs offerings, a teapot with some “tea-posies,” and a CD set about Albert Einstein. And while we both had a tremendous amount of fun, we also agreed that this has been the most hectic series of Christmas celebrations we’ve ever had … next year, we’ll aim for something a bit more low-key! |
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Today's Journaling: "About the only unexpected element of the holiday thus far is scheduling. Typically (and not just at the holidays), I have everything scheduled out to the hour. This year, I’ve been doing something different, which is to leave as many things open to the last minute as possible. I think it may be freaking some people out, but it’s also pretty cool, because it means I can capitalize on last minute plans!"
Dear Santa,
For Christmas this year, I don’t need anything for myself, but I have a few ideas for other people. Could you please bring Jason a Playstation 3 with Guitar Hero? And Ken would very much like monthly massages at Kohler Waters Spa. If you could arrange for Kaye to have flowers delivered every month, that would be just great. And I think Kim would really enjoy an addition on her house, maybe even including her own yoga studio. Chris needs more gourmet foods and wines. Mele needs the guidance of an organizational professional who won’t be too threatening. My parents, I’m sure, would make good use of a rented apartment for a month, in Florida, during the cold winter months. My brother & his family could use an all-expenses paid vacation to the Virgin Islands. I think that’s it. I know it’s a lot to ask, but I figured you’re pretty good at this sort of thing, so it wouldn’t hurt to ask. Thanks for all of your help.
Love,
Latharia
Connecting with loved ones in person, on the phone, and by mail (snail or email)
A fresh cut Christmas tree, decorated with colorful lights and heirloom ornaments
Not being able to fall asleep, on account of all the excitement with Santa’s arrival
Lounging around in the comfiest attire possible, for as long as possible
Boston Pops’ Christmas Party and Porter Music Box Christmas (LPs or CDs) playing
Emptying stockings, first thing on Christmas morning, finding trinkets and treats
Taking turns to distribute gifts to recipients a few at a time - no making piles of gifts to open!
Mindfully opening gifts on Christmas morning, one at a time, paying attention to whoever is opening a gift, followed by thanking the person who gave the gift (if that person is in attendance), then writing down the gift and the giver on a notepad
Writing thank you notes, on Christmas afternoon, to any gift-givers who were not present during the gift opening
You Are a Traditional Christmas Tree |
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Nov 21: have all “long distance” Christmas gifts shipped
Nov 24 to Dec 14: wrap all other Christmas gifts
Nov 30: have all Christmas cards written, addressed, and stamped
Dec 1: mail Christmas cards, get out holiday decorations
Dec 1 to 15: bake Christmas cookies
Dec 2: see “It’s a Wonderful Life” at the Tivoli Theatre!
Dec 8/9: get Christmas tree
Dec 9: see The Nutcracker (House Theatre version) with Chris
Dec 10-14: decorate Christmas tree
Dec 13: mail package for “Letters to Santa”
Dec 15: Mom & Dad arrive midday
Dec 16: Cookie Day!
Dec 16: Distribute gifts to everyone we won’t see before Christmas
Dec 22/23: possibly celebrate Christmas with Mom & Dad!
Dec 24: Christmas Eve dinner!
Dec 25: celebrate Christmas on our own! (Jason may come over in the afternoon)
Dec 26: celebrate Christmas with Kaye, Dave, Kim, Seldon, Jayne & Larry!
Dec 31: celebrate New Year’s with Barbara & Larry!
Because I communicate with most of the people on our Christmas card list throughout the year … and because some of the cards I sent have so little space to write (especially those pop-up cards this year!), I don’t feel bad about writing a brief greeting & signing the card. For people I don’t correspond with much, I will write a bit more information, just some of the highlights & I’ll inquire about what’s going on with them. We don’t do a holiday letter, but instead, we often send out a Christmas Eve email, with a photo of us attached & a few words on how we’re celebrating the holiday, and sometimes a brief year-in-review. Maybe this year I’ll wise up and make a slideshow & just send people a link!
As of December 1st, I’ve got all of my cards in the mail, complete with holiday postage stamps and holiday return address labels. Occasionally, I’ll get a card from someone who fell off the radar … or someone new. I have a couple of the embossed snowflake ones left, just in case, and I’ll get one out right away, if I get a card from someone I’ve missed!"
Makes 24 tassies.